Veiwing Advice | Help

# 1  2009-10-23 21:31:08

213
Woman, 53
United Kingdom
Flintshire
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hi I have been on the site for about a month now and over the last 2 days have had 78 veiwings ,I know i came on here to meet people but this is more than i had in a whole month can you tell me if there is a reason for this ......I know i good but i not that good

# 2  2009-10-23 21:35:02

791
Woman, 49
United Kingdom
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shelly956 wrote:

hi I have been on the site for about a month now and over the last 2 days have had 78 veiwings ,I know i came on here to meet people but this is more than i had in a whole month can you tell me if there is a reason for this ......I know i good but i not that good

You'll find that on certain days you'll get more viewings than others. To do with .... Boredom of the opp ****, quiet times during the day etc.

# 3  2009-10-23 21:46:44

213
Woman, 53
United Kingdom
Flintshire
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lovelyladyx wrote:

shelly956 wrote:

hi I have been on the site for about a month now and over the last 2 days have had 78 veiwings ,I know i came on here to meet people but this is more than i had in a whole month can you tell me if there is a reason for this ......I know i good but i not that good

You'll find that on certain days you'll get more viewings than others. To do with .... Boredom of the opp ****, quiet times during the day etc.

hello again i can understand what you saying but isnt 79 veiwings in 2 days a little excessive i been on for a month and only had 21 up till wed then as i say 79 in 2 days its quite disconcerting feels like i more on show or somthing stupid isnt it but i think i would rather go back to a few a week

# 4  2009-10-23 21:53:49

791
Woman, 49
United Kingdom
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shelly956 wrote:

lovelyladyx wrote:

shelly956 wrote:

hi I have been on the site for about a month now and over the last 2 days have had 78 veiwings ,I know i came on here to meet people but this is more than i had in a whole month can you tell me if there is a reason for this ......I know i good but i not that good

You'll find that on certain days you'll get more viewings than others. To do with .... Boredom of the opp ****, quiet times during the day etc.

hello again i can understand what you saying but isnt 79 veiwings in 2 days a little excessive i been on for a month and only had 21 up till wed then as i say 79 in 2 days its quite disconcerting feels like i more on show or somthing stupid isnt it but i think i would rather go back to a few a week

I've had 50+  in a day so it's just a case of putting up  with it I'm afraid. Only 2 of them were genuine.

# 5  2009-10-23 22:04:24

213
Woman, 53
United Kingdom
Flintshire
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lovelyladyx wrote:

shelly956 wrote:

lovelyladyx wrote:


You'll find that on certain days you'll get more viewings than others. To do with .... Boredom of the opp ****, quiet times during the day etc.

hello again i can understand what you saying but isnt 79 veiwings in 2 days a little excessive i been on for a month and only had 21 up till wed then as i say 79 in 2 days its quite disconcerting feels like i more on show or somthing stupid isnt it but i think i would rather go back to a few a week

I've had 50+  in a day so it's just a case of putting up  with it I'm afraid. Only 2 of them were genuine.

only bout 10 of these were over 30

# 6  2009-10-24 14:46:52

127
Woman, 47
United Kingdom
Perth
Lovely linguist

Everyone's entitled to have a look, that's why we are here.
I've looked at 30 + online in a day.
The younger ones are just curious and chancing their luck lol.

# 7  2009-10-24 15:18:31

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Man, 18
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Re #1-#6, allow me to put in a word for the guys - at least those approximating to my generation.

I have never made a secret of the fact that I enjoy seeing photos of attractive women and that is something that I hope will never change.

I don't trawl through searches looking; rather, my interest may be piqued by something said in a post and then I will view the profile (probably more than once). Some I may email (for obvious reasons) some I won't for disparate reasons.

The fact remains that I will view many more profiles than will arouse my interest enough to make contact and, if someone is less discriminating in selecting profiles you are bound to have a great many more views of your profiles than you may feel appropriate.

What concerns me is the number of guys I get viewing my profile but at least I don't get emails from them asking me to contact their 'private' email address so they can send me their photos !!

So, I'm sorry ladies but you're just going to have to get used to the astatus quo.

Good luck.

# 8  2009-10-24 21:20:41

791
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United Kingdom
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al-terego wrote:

Re #1-#6, allow me to put in a word for the guys - at least those approximating to my generation.

I have never made a secret of the fact that I enjoy seeing photos of attractive women and that is something that I hope will never change.

I don't trawl through searches looking; rather, my interest may be piqued by something said in a post and then I will view the profile (probably more than once). Some I may email (for obvious reasons) some I won't for disparate reasons.

The fact remains that I will view many more profiles than will arouse my interest enough to make contact and, if someone is less discriminating in selecting profiles you are bound to have a great many more views of your profiles than you may feel appropriate.

What concerns me is the number of guys I get viewing my profile but at least I don't get emails from them asking me to contact their 'private' email address so they can send me their photos !!

So, I'm sorry ladies but you're just going to have to get used to the astatus quo.

Good luck.

I agree with A.

how many times have you looked at profiles and taken it no further?

This is all the guys are doing, so don't worry if you have 200 viewings in a day, it means nothing.

It's the guys and girls that make contact that matter.

Good luck.



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