Single Mum | Single Parents

millylou51 wrote:

being a single mum on here or any dating sites,is not easy,finding some one at 52 years old,men want either younger women,or attractive,slim,athlete.but some women as my self is not any of them,i am not bad looking women,but not slim.they seem to want trophys on the there arms.where are the normal guys gone.

Milly my love,
I find your profile a little perplexing
You have children but they don't live with you ?
They're not at private school since your unemployed ?

Anyways....
If you have something attractive.....people will be attracted to it
Everyone knows that doesn't have to be looks (it can be a whole host of things)
Life is not a equal playing-field, different people have different skills, beliefs, drives
Fortes fortuna adiuvat
There is SO MUCH opportunity in this country
You only have to decide what you want and keep working towards it
You have to make the best of what you've got, it is pointless trying to blame others
You cannot change others
The only person you can change is yourself