Single Dads | Single Parents

You hang on in there Chris, you obviously love your girl very much. Nice to hear of a Dad who does want their child. Good luck... You need to talk, im on the site. xx

good for you,  im a single dad as well have 2 children living with me from first partner, threw my wife out last week due to her having an affair for last 4 months  . and i still work 40 hours a week, talk about being tired lol

do single dads find it hard to find a partner who is prepared to take on another womans kids?

DISCARNET wrote:

good for you,  im a single dad as well have 2 children living with me from first partner, threw my wife out last week due to her having an affair for last 4 months  . and i still work 40 hours a week, talk about being tired lol

do single dads find it hard to find a partner who is prepared to take on another womans kids?

they are not on this planet for your entertainment mate.......ya kids come first......soz... cheers......

hi mate im a single dad as well,i won custody battle 2 yr ago,my wee girl was 6yr old at time.mum is a alcaholic,so i have full custody,and child protection order.my daughter is now 8,she has juvenile chronic athiritus in 49 bones and has it in the eyes as well.im now a full time carer 4 her,i love het to bits,times are hard but it does get easier as time goes on.if you want a chat get intouch .mike

Keep loving and keep fighting.guys................ they are so worth it 

It's so good to hear of dad's that want to make the commitment to their kids

chris27a wrote:

yes its hard been a single dad i have recently taken custody of my 2 year old girl.cant work no more not until she is sorted in life.still going through court at the minute i hopefully will get custody i want it this little girl is so innocent and its not her fault me and her mum split over 15 months ago.i will fight for her all the way single dads its a credit to us as hard as it is.

Chris well done, fella. More father should fight women for there flesh and blood......Take Pete and Jordon...she gets pissed up in clubs.....leaves her kids swans off to spain......and who need to go to court to see the kids Pete.....the law in this F****** (sorry people for swearing) country is a disgrace for loving caring fathers.......Chris well done again fella....We  (fathers) are all behind you pal......wish yeah all the best.


Be Lucky

my ex wanted to be young again and walked away i won custordy of five sons youngest was eight now he is 26 she walks back into our lives as if its nothing never saw them not christmas or birthday cards no contact no maitance dispite good job was it worth the hassel yep they love me and me them would i walk away never?

Apart from my obvious lack of good looks and charm....

I am a father - most men my age are.... ok I c my kids every other weekend... but i have been rejected by women and one I was with 3 and a half years because I cared for my children.

Ladies its 26 days a year + a few more here and there.

ah but they must have been shallow I hear you say... but really I am 46 now would I want to take on another family or another persons kids - AT ALL , well yes for love... but you dont get past first base if you say you have kids....

at least not kids that are 12 and 14..... as they are going to be around at least 6 years..... in consistent contact...

on top of that my Son has Autism - mentioned that and the last two dates - have 'slept on it' and decided to go no further..... even one that worked with children and one that had two youngish ones of her own....

but if i didn't mention it I would have been accused of being a liar.... or at the least hiding stuff......

Cant win.

Son have resigned myself to being single for at least 6 years......


human nature I guess

What can I say, these women have lost so much. You all sound like fantastic fathers and new partners should thank their lucky stars that you have shown so much love for your children. I honestly wish that my daughter's father could take a leaf out of your books. He walked out when my daughter was 18 months and we haven't seen or heard from him for 3 years. It restores my faith in men to hear you single dads speak of your children with so much love and respect. Every child is special and if you have a child with special needs a partner should feel proud to be part of their lives.

You're absolutely right in that the kids are the most important.

I'm long past worrying about being a single dad and when I was it was only for about five months. I don't envy any single parent. Most of the girls I knew at that time were less than half my age, great for my ego but not a chance of a real relationship.

Even if one of those beautiful girls had wanted more than a great friendship nothing would have happened simply because my kids came first.

i am a single father my wife left me last year when see got pregnant to another man, she left me with her daughter who is now 17 i have brought her up since she was only a baby so as far as i am concerned she is mine, but it is hard now my daughter has a little sister [she is a lovely little thing] but i have to rise above it and get on with it, and it is true woman run a mile when they hear i have a teenager lol