Why Does EVERYONE HATE Me?!?!?! | Flirting Tips And Advice

# 1  2010-04-05 19:39:22

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mattsix This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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Hi,

It seems that no matter what I say to people, no one wants to speak to me ?!

If I'm ugly, FINE, I can deal with that! It can't be changed. But if it's not, it's gutta be down to my AWFUL personality???

Anyone able to sway in a vague direction to success!

Matt

# 2  2010-04-05 19:44:36

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DaevidCarter This member enters the site using the DateTheUK Android Application!
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Before any constructive reply can be made, the question on our lips might be "are you real?"

# 3  2010-04-05 20:26:04

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al-terego This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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IF everyone hates you from the start, Matt, its probably just because it saves time.

If, in fact, people don't like you it could be on account of any number of things. If, as you intimate, they dislike you from the start it has to be because of something that's obvious from the moment they first meet you.

If you hate yourself, for whatever reason, it seems likely that you're imputing that feeling to others.

Alternatively, as DC suggested, you aren't real.

# 4  2010-04-05 23:25:35

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sarahstheone This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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mattsix wrote:

Hi,

It seems that no matter what I say to people, no one wants to speak to me ?!

If I'm ugly, FINE, I can deal with that! It can't be changed. But if it's not, it's gutta be down to my AWFUL personality???

Anyone able to sway in a vague direction to success!

Matt

Not sure what it is that you're saying to people, that nobody wants to talk back to you. Are you attempting to converse in Swahili or is the content of your dialogue so distasteful? You've already mentioned an awful personality, is that really what you think you have?

Your profile is dominated by your interest in martial arts, but says nothing about you as a person. I'd suggest a more critical appraisal of it.

# 5  2010-04-06 17:34:13

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pray4war This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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Hey m8, sorry to hear that. Is it random people in the street, friends or people at work?

Maybe they are mistaking you for prince harry??

# 6  2010-04-11 06:03:17

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mattsix This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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Thanks for the relpies everyone....

DaevidCarter: Yes I am indeed real, what's that supposed to mean and also how does that help?

al-terego: Perhps I am giving off a vibe, one that is what I see myself as. I shall be more aware! Nice one...

sarahstheone: I'm not distasteful, it's just no one replies when I initiate. Maybe its just bad luck. My 'awful personality' was purely an assumption, not a statement. I'm hoping its not true, which is why I've come here to ask what you think. Need more info about me, less martial arts. Appreciate the critism

pray4war: mainly on this site to be honest! though it seems to be true in social situations, people seem to shy away...
and yes...ive heard that a couple of times about this prince harry thing, i cant see the similarity myself n im not that posh!

# 7  2010-07-09 23:00:07

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gord779 This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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Ok, so this is an old post...

No one mentioned or asked if he had witnessed a terrible massacre - of clowns

# 8  2010-08-18 18:22:21

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Lucky_Wong This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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mattsix wrote:

about this prince harry thing, i cant see the similarity myself n im not that posh!

Boy sitting on a goldmine and doesn;t even know it! Get your **** to America and pretend you're related to the royal family. See what happens then

# 9  2010-08-18 18:37:32

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sarahstheone This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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It's a pity the whole of the real Royal Family don't move stateside!

# 10  2010-08-18 18:37:50

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janeygirl18 This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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mattsix wrote:

Hi,

It seems that no matter what I say to people, no one wants to speak to me ?!

If I'm ugly, FINE, I can deal with that! It can't be changed. But if it's not, it's gutta be down to my AWFUL personality???

Anyone able to sway in a vague direction to success!

Matt

Look, you clearly ARE Prince Harry.
God knows how many other members of the (Royal) Family are on here .
(I suspect all)
Sarah's probably QE2 for a start.
Hell, I don't blame you all for chillin' out here.
All those Royal Gala nights can't compete with DTUK.

# 11  2010-08-18 18:42:26

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sarahstheone This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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It's not so surprising. Even James Hewitt (Harry's dad) has joined a dating site. I read about it recently.