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I know what you mean, in a way. I'm straight, have had some great mates, both M & F who're gay and have had great times with them. But I get winks from guys and have to ask myself 'what the eff's going on?'

Good luck

I have yet to be winked at by a bloke. But the other day I guy viewed my profile, so yeah I see where ur coming from in a way

Hiya freckles and welcome. I get fed up too, i seem to have lots of women viewing even though i have stated that i am straight. I guess we just have to put up with it.

Freckles, I will refrain from "hitting" on you.

It's just that I am a Lesbian trapped in a man's body.

  Be who you are and let other people cope with your strength and choice!

Wise words from an old fart like me! 

gord779 wrote:

I have yet to be winked at by a bloke. But the other day I guy viewed my profile, so yeah I see where ur coming from in a way

ONE guy? Wow!

When it gets to 70% is the time to start complaining. That's how bad it got until I changed my profile to say I am as queer as a concrete parachute.

Then all these truly bodacious women started throwing themselves at me.

Its a queer world.

You should be so lucky!!!!

Only in my dreams.

DaevidCarter wrote:

Wise words from an old fart like me! 

DC you don't look a day over 70

i just want this sorted out, i've contacted site admin with no reply, i don't wanna be harrassed by men so please can someone answer this question, i paid to be here, i would appreciate an answer for that right i know im not the only one this is bothering

Just had a count of the 75 people listed as having viewed my profile - 52 are male. The majority of the females are under 30. I've received 1 email from a guy who wants to marry and have children and countless from young women who want me to reply to them on **** addresses. This is why I state clearly on my profile that I am here only for the forum and blogs. I'm not complaining exactly, I regard it as spam which I guess we all receive on or off this site. It's the downside of the internet.
Oh, and hello Freckles. Nobody can hurt you by sending you emails, only you can do that by answering unwisely.

freckles29 wrote:

i just want this sorted out, i've contacted site admin with no reply, i don't wanna be harrassed by men so please can someone answer this question, i paid to be here, i would appreciate an answer for that right i know im not the only one this is bothering

It seems to me that there's no answer to your question, at least as far as this site is concerned. I'm sorry you seem to have got the impression that all men are **** predators - some of us aren't.

This post could well be 'disappeared' as I would suggest that you try **** which is totally free. It has the advantage for you that you can specify exactly who you want to contact you and can bar all others.

Good luck.

Ah, deal with it! 

freckles29 wrote:

i'm fed up of using this site, one i paid for - big mistake...

why am i getting men contacting me when i'm a gay woman?? if im looking for a woman and a man is looking for a woman, why then am i still coming up on their search, i'm fed up of the numerous amounts of emails and contact i've had from men, not what i joined this site for...

i did contact admin about this before with no answers whatsoever... if other site's can do it why can't you?? no point trying for a refund as i'm sure i'll get refused one waste of time and money when this site does not do what it should..

"one i paid for - big mistake..."
well ?

are you sure your not into guys ?
(even guys who may pretend to be women)

lol

twostrikes wrote:

freckles29 wrote:

i'm fed up of using this site, one i paid for - big mistake...

why am i getting men contacting me when i'm a gay woman?? if im looking for a woman and a man is looking for a woman, why then am i still coming up on their search, i'm fed up of the numerous amounts of emails and contact i've had from men, not what i joined this site for...

i did contact admin about this before with no answers whatsoever... if other site's can do it why can't you?? no point trying for a refund as i'm sure i'll get refused one waste of time and money when this site does not do what it should..

"one i paid for - big mistake..."
well ?

are you sure your not into guys ?
(even guys who may pretend to be women)

lol

Want to have your cake and eat it, mB?

freckles29 wrote:

i just want this sorted out, i've contacted site admin with no reply, i don't wanna be harrassed by men so please can someone answer this question, i paid to be here, i would appreciate an answer for that right i know im not the only one this is bothering

Unfortunately the moderators only seem to answer questions that they want to. I am still waiting for a reply to a suggestion that i posted weeks ago!!!