Ladies Don'T You Hate It When..... | Relationship Issues

clemar wrote:

Ladies do you have an opinion on guys that don't know you, calling you "hun" , "sweetie" "pretty" and heavens , the worst of them all "dear" !!!! I find it tummy curdling when I get mail referring me to one of these awful terms. In fact I don't even bother to read them . Please gentlemen ( loosely said) call us by our username if you do not know us well enough or have not had our permission to call us by another name !!!

Hello 'Delicious' you look good enough to eat....Ade xx

clemar wrote:

Ladies do you have an opinion on guys that don't know you, calling you "hun" , "sweetie" "pretty" and heavens , the worst of them all "dear" !!!! I find it tummy curdling when I get mail referring me to one of these awful terms. In fact I don't even bother to read them . Please gentlemen ( loosely said) call us by our username if you do not know us well enough or have not had our permission to call us by another name !!!

Ok little lady point taken

Happy days

I don't mind being called hun, i think its quite sweet x

clemar wrote:

Ladies do you have an opinion on guys that don't know you, calling you "hun" , "sweetie" "pretty" and heavens , the worst of them all "dear" !!!! I find it tummy curdling when I get mail referring me to one of these awful terms. In fact I don't even bother to read them . Please gentlemen ( loosely said) call us by our username if you do not know us well enough or have not had our permission to call us by another name !!!

Hun I don't mind,
pretty or my dear I do. They are terms that only someone who knows you should use and once you get to know me you'd know not to use them any way as I hate them lol!

I find as a general rule that "hello pretty" usually comes from someone I suspect of being a ****, I've had lots of e mails that start like this and then go on to profess undying love before even receiving a reply from me and "my dear " makes me feel about 12 and that the e mailer is in his later years lets say so that feels very wrong!

Why not use the user name or just say "hi I'm sending you an email etc etc etc................"

Whats a email???

adeysnite wrote:

Whats a email???

now that made me laugh

lovelyladyx wrote:

clemar wrote:

Ladies do you have an opinion on guys that don't know you, calling you "hun" , "sweetie" "pretty" and heavens , the worst of them all "dear" !!!! I find it tummy curdling when I get mail referring me to one of these awful terms. In fact I don't even bother to read them . Please gentlemen ( loosely said) call us by our username if you do not know us well enough or have not had our permission to call us by another name !!!

Hun I don't mind,
pretty or my dear I do. They are terms that only someone who knows you should use and once you get to know me you'd know not to use them any way as I hate them lol!

I find as a general rule that "hello pretty" usually comes from someone I suspect of being a ****, I've had lots of e mails that start like this and then go on to profess undying love before even receiving a reply from me and "my dear " makes me feel about 12 and that the e mailer is in his later years lets say so that feels very wrong!

Why not use the user name or just say "hi I'm sending you an email etc etc etc................"

Hi All,

I dont mind most of the expressions, how many times do we refer to someone by name anyway. e.g my friend jo every time i speak her i dont use her name, but.....,,... DEAR no it makes me feel 99 a definate no no

vixen

I'm the same as the last post...I dont mind any of those pet names...other than 'dear'...that is usually said when being patronising

hun, sweetie, pretty etc sound quite sweet

x

StrawberryMoon wrote:

I'm the same as the last post...I dont mind any of those pet names...other than 'dear'...that is usually said when being patronising

hun, sweetie, pretty etc sound quite sweet

x

I agree with you that they sound sweet when in dialogue with someone you've e mailed or spoken to b4 but it's wrong when you've not heard from someone b4 and they send you "hello pretty", "Hi Babe", " I've seen your profile and you've been sent to me by God" especially since they have not even read your profile etc.

lovelyladyx wrote:

StrawberryMoon wrote:

I'm the same as the last post...I dont mind any of those pet names...other than 'dear'...that is usually said when being patronising

hun, sweetie, pretty etc sound quite sweet

x

I agree with you that they sound sweet when in dialogue with someone you've e mailed or spoken to b4 but it's wrong when you've not heard from someone b4 and they send you "hello pretty", "Hi Babe", " I've seen your profile and you've been sent to me by God" especially since they have not even read your profile etc.

I think its sweet cos I speak to my girlfriends like that...I always call them sweetie or babe, even my boy mates ...emails with something ridiculous such as 'you've been sent to me by God' gets a delete straight away tho!! it's too faulse

x

Thanx for that, they get deleted and then blocked lol!!!

StrawberryMoon wrote:

lovelyladyx wrote:

StrawberryMoon wrote:

I'm the same as the last post...I dont mind any of those pet names...other than 'dear'...that is usually said when being patronising

hun, sweetie, pretty etc sound quite sweet

x

I agree with you that they sound sweet when in dialogue with someone you've e mailed or spoken to b4 but it's wrong when you've not heard from someone b4 and they send you "hello pretty", "Hi Babe", " I've seen your profile and you've been sent to me by God" especially since they have not even read your profile etc.

I think its sweet cos I speak to my girlfriends like that...I always call them sweetie or babe, even my boy mates ...emails with something ridiculous such as 'you've been sent to me by God' gets a delete straight away tho!! it's too faulse

x

come on ladies, doesn,t you are an angel send from god get you going lol. I love you i want you to be my wife we are ment to be together my dear( yuck) i like it when you get these mass produced emails and the same guy emails you the same email again 2/3 days later. Yes i have a brain i do use it, i didn,t answer you the first time huney love of my life so i,m not answering you this time either BABE!

lovelyladyx wrote:

Thanx for that, they get deleted and then blocked lol!!!

Hi all,

Yes the block button  is ,i have to say my favourite one lol

God i am so in touch with my feminine side tonight lol, I actually agree with all you ladies. Show some respect Guys and at least chat to the ladies first.
Getting ready for a slating now

No slating from me rattleyourbox ....and I would hazard a guess that all us ladies think that you are delightful . Now - all you other guys out there take your lead from rattleyourbox 

StrawberryMoon wrote:

I'm the same as the last post...I dont mind any of those pet names...other than 'dear'...that is usually said when being patronising

hun, sweetie, pretty etc sound quite sweet

x

'Delicious' from guess who ?? xx

vixen43 wrote:

adeysnite wrote:

Whats a email???

now that made me laugh

'chukkle' i can make you happy ? ade

StrawberryMoon wrote:

lovelyladyx wrote:

StrawberryMoon wrote:

I'm the same as the last post...I dont mind any of those pet names...other than 'dear'...that is usually said when being patronising

hun, sweetie, pretty etc sound quite sweet

x

I agree with you that they sound sweet when in dialogue with someone you've e mailed or spoken to b4 but it's wrong when you've not heard from someone b4 and they send you "hello pretty", "Hi Babe", " I've seen your profile and you've been sent to me by God" especially since they have not even read your profile etc.

I think its sweet cos I speak to my girlfriends like that...I always call them sweetie or babe, even my boy mates ...emails with something ridiculous such as 'you've been sent to me by God' gets a delete straight away tho!! it's too faulse

x

false or faulse ? delicious.!...mmmm.... priceless.....cheers x

Ha! Ha!