Oriental Girls | Interracial Dating

Hi.... just as a onesided comment, I was married to an Oriental with "made in HongKong stamped on her bum !
She was UK educated but never really got to grips with British humour and insisted on eating rice every day..!
My advice is to always look at people of a similar outlook and upbringing to yourselves , that way the gap will never be that wide !
I've probably put the cat amongst the pigeons ! but thats my personal belief . M.

really, u certainl never liked chinese food. our rice is just like your bread. my friend got a british boyfriend who went to china made us feel he is just a totally chinese apart from his blue eyes and hair. he loves china so much. ur girl grew up here, so u don't have a chance to get to know the real china.

I am a very open-minded person and I love meeting people from different cultures and backgrounds. Although I havent had any luck on here (hello!! Any girls out there????), my dream is to have a relationship with an Indian girl. While this sounds like a far fetched one I live in the hope of waking up one day to the realisation that I wasnt just dreaming about it - I actually have an Indian girlfriend!!

Think Handyman4u is a tad narrow minded   and comes across as very bitter. Just because his relationship never worked out doesnt mean all orientals are like his ex, who might just happen to  be a lovely lady who loves her rice. What's the big deal. Treat people as individuals please . Peace man !

Oriental girls are ok dating white guys. at least i can say that about myself. There is nothing wrong with other looks, but somehow in my very personal case i turned to be more into white guys than even of my own race. Besides there is a lot of mass media promoting the European look in men, probably i simply follow that trend?

You knwo what they say about things made in Japan - they last longer, are more reliable and great quality.  I talk, of course, abotu my Sony TV.  See, nothing wrong with things 'Made in Japan'

I agree with LollyB to some extent, I was married to a lovely woman, she was Asian, actually she was from indo China, the problem was we had such a cultural difference, it was difficult, and arguments were explosive, when we were not arguing about really silly things, we were wonderful together, she had a problem of being on chat rooms and recieving mails from previous lovers etc, this really had a profound effect on me, while she remaind adament that nothing was being planned or going on, there was always a seed of doubt in my mind, this constantly worried me as to her validity, now you may well say, yes i had reason to be, but, and its a big but, she would tell me that it was their culture to do this, it was not frowned upon to chat to other guys or to be mailed photos from them, she would always say its nothing, i do not cheat you, you see how difficult this makes things, on the one hand she tells you she is on chat rooms etc, on the other she tells you its ok???? very honest about being on their, but adhereing to her right to do as she wanted to, as long as she did not cheat, in her eyes this was perfectly ok, it was like a set of rules for her and a different one for me, but then again, untill now, i have not ever gone into chat rooms for casual chat with the opposite ****.
  Never again, If this is her culture, then never again, it makes for a very rocky untrustworthy relationship, too many doubts
  Or was I just unlucky, I would say, stick with what you know, it may look good on the outset, but I think too many rocks in front of your boat

I was with my ex for 16 years she was from the Philippines but grew up here from the age of 12 she was very good looking and loving. Shame she was a serial cheat and a she could never tell the truth if her life depended on it but her mother is a wonderful woman and the sisters are not like her at all and my daughter is not like her personalty i would date another given the chance most are very loving and loyal to there men

Having lived in Australia for many years it was quite commonplace to see quite elderly men with very attractive nubile young wives from South East Asia.  Lots even had babies in prams too.  Obviously each getting something from the relationship that was beneficial to both.

For the older man it was no doubt gaining the interest of a woman young enough to be his daughter who would not even have looked his way unless she needed to gain an Australian passport.

Though I am sure there are some genuine cases of true love........

And for the OP it is quite common in Australia to see white guys with Asian women.

(In Australia Asian means Fillipino, Thai, Chinese, Japanese, etc. not Indian as it does here in the UK)

Reading throught this  thread with some interest , but for me An ordanaryman's post sums it up perfect i think for the UK white guys.

Jeeze, I didn't realize Chisty Moore was on this site!!

How're ya doin' there, Christy?

Did you not have any luck there at Lisdoonvarna?