Have I Lost My Touch | Flirting Tips And Advice

# 1  2009-09-01 19:55:43

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steve12310 This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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Guys,

I am not sure you can help but perhaps you can....

I have joined this site a week or so ago and i have emailed a few ladies i liked the look and sound of on profile but i get nothing back .

Is it something i am doing wrong or am i not the type of bloke a girl would go for etc...


I am starting to feel worse rather than positive now lol...

I am a geuie guy who respectful and loving and heart big enough to feel england...

Any advice would be appreciated....

# 2  2009-09-01 22:07:16

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steve12310 This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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no one wat to advise then

# 3  2009-09-02 08:27:49

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DTUK_forum_moderator This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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Hello steve12310,

You could find some helpful tips in these threads

http://forum.datetheuk.com/How-to-get-g … topic/5062

http://forum.datetheuk.com/Am-I-ugly/topic/4322

Join other forum discussions and get noticed!

Respectfully,
DTUK_forum_moderator

# 4  2009-09-14 23:06:20

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lovelyladyx This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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Hi steve,
I'll loook at your profile for you if you like?
S.X


# 5  2009-10-10 17:07:12

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al-terego This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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Hi Steve,

I figure that as you've put your profile up I'm free to view it because I couldn't offer my advice without having done. I have three quick points:-

1. your second photo is the better of the two, but I'd suggested you try cropping/rotating to try to show yourself in
    a vertical position so theladies don't strain their pretty necks trying to see what you look like. I know you can
    normally only rotate 90 degrees at a time so you may have to get a new photo. Otherwise the pose isn't bad and
    with a better-lit full-length shot you should be OK,

2. ditch the "sarcastic"........everyone knows that sarcasm is the lowest form so how about saying something about a
    self-deprecating wit and

3. you talk of wanting someone with the sme morals as yourself, but give no indication of what they are, so perhaps
   add something.

All this from someone who hates writing profiles........WOW  !!!
The truth is, I hate writing about myself when what I say is liaable to be viewed by '000s.

Good luck

# 6  2009-10-10 21:16:35

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lovelyladyx This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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steve12310 wrote:

no one wat to advise then

Hi Steve there's no point asking for help on here if you then don't come back on for the feedback.

# 7  2009-10-12 00:23:39

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al-terego This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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He's clearly found THE ANSWER.................and he's too tight to share !!

# 8  2009-10-13 22:09:01

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al-terego wrote:

He's clearly found THE ANSWER.................and he's too tight to share !!

How rude !!!!!!!

  X

# 9  2009-10-18 23:22:43

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lovelyladyx wrote:

al-terego wrote:

He's clearly found THE ANSWER.................and he's too tight to share !!

How rude !!!!!!!

  X

Of whom?

# 10  2009-10-22 21:18:50

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lovelyladyx This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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meant cos he wouldn't share lol!

# 11  2009-10-22 21:54:48

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steve12310 wrote:

Guys,

I am not sure you can help but perhaps you can....

I have joined this site a week or so ago and i have emailed a few ladies i liked the look and sound of on profile but i get nothing back .

Is it something i am doing wrong or am i not the type of bloke a girl would go for etc...


I am starting to feel worse rather than positive now lol...

I am a geuie guy who respectful and loving and heart big enough to feel england...

Any advice would be appreciated....

Patience, mate, patience.  Respect. 

# 12  2009-10-23 20:46:21

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lovelyladyx This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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Hi Steve,
I've looked at your profile and the first thing you need to do is spell check it. Mistakes tend to put people off.
Hope you take this as constructive crtisism and not the wrong way.


# 13  2010-01-29 16:36:10

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gord779 This member uses the web version of DateTheUK
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Think of it in terms of sales: it's a numbers game. You can't hope that by just emailing one person who you absolutely adore is going to be the answer. In simple terms not everyone is everyone elses cup of tea. There are bound to be some out there - perseverance pays dividends.

Oh, and whoever said patience, you are spot on